The school bus driver shortage has made front-page headlines throughout America’s newsrooms. But the journalists need to interview more current and former bus drivers to get the real skinny.
Now, I’ve never driven a school bus, but I’ve talked to several folks who have. All their accounts share the same basic theme: The kids are out of control.
The problem has evolved over the last several decades with a change in parenting (starting with either “helicopter” or “hands-off” parenting by the boomers and Generation X). Self-control is a learned skill instilled through swift and certain discipline or the threat thereof. When we take discipline out of the hands of competent adult authorities (parents, teachers, police, bus drivers, etc.), we end up with children who think they can say and do whatever they want with no consequences. Instead of giving kids tough love, we gave them rights.
So if you want more school bus drivers, here’s what we need to do:
John Ogorzalek
Dover